After finishing, I tried to figure out why I appreciated the author's work so much and found the answer in an astute comment by the Charlotte Observer (in the review excerpts in the first few pages): "It opens with a proclamation of love and concludes with an image of redemption, and what unfolds in the pages between them is extraordinary...A remarkable achievement...Cullen has brought illumination to a dark and difficult topic, and the result is an example of literary nonfiction at its finest: masterful, clear-eyed, bold--and unforgettable."